Every day, David, a 10-year-old boy, the mother demanded more money for lunch at school. However, he looked weaker than ever and turn back home starved. It has been proven that David gave all the money from the pocket of another fifth-grader, who threatens that he will beat if refuses to do so.
Bullying- causes why children become bullies?
How you can help your child?
- Avoid the aggressor- colleague uses friends from school.
- Master your anger. Is it normal to feel upset and angry, but exactly these types of reactions they want to challenge the aggressors. This makes them feel stronger. Exercise your reactions, try not to cry or look upset. It’s difficult, it takes a lot of practice, but it is a useful skill to keep the aggressor’s chest. Some kids practice all sorts of anger soothing strategies such as counting according to 10, writing words that express a deep breath or anger, abandonment, departure. Sometimes you can teach your children to wear a “poker face” (poker player) will be safe (smile or laughter may cause the assailant).
- Be bold, go ahead and ignore the abuser. Tell the person in a way that clearly and firmly to cease and then leave. Try as much as you can to ignore insults, behave yourself as if you are interested in or not cool as you write a message to someone on the phone. Ignoring the aggressor, you look like you don’t care.
- Talk about your problem. Tells what happens to a person you trust, like a teacher, school counselor, a brother or a friend. They can give you helpful hints and, even if you will not be able to remedy the situation, at least you’ll feel lonely.